Most people have the order of creation backwards. They focus way too much energy on what they want to have. They figure that once they have optimal health, the new car, the new job then they will be able to do what they really want to do, like have energy for exercising, enjoy life more, take some time off of work, which will allow them to be the type of person that they truly want to be. This is a have-do-be focus. This puts the end result as the starting point or focus rather than what it truly is. This is not the way things work in life.
A more accurate
order of creation is the be-do-have focus. Before
you can “do” you must first “be”. Being
is the starting point, the source, from which all comes from. Focus on your being first, and then your
doing will naturally follow suit. You
will find it much easier to do the things that you know you must do in order to
achieve what it is that you want to have.
The “have’s” are the ‘things’, the results of your being and doing. The real benefit of having and working toward
your goals is who you become along the journey anyways.
Now I would like to
bring this home to your health. Let’s
start with the BEING. What does it mean
for you to be healthy? How do you define
health? Are you merely trying to avoid
pain and experience comfort or do you see your health as a vehicle for you to
live your dream life? How will you know
when you are truly healthy? A very important part of being healthy is
defining it in your own way.
Next let’s look at
DOING. Do you know where you are
starting from? In order to know the most
effective path to arrive at where you want to go you need to understand where you
are starting from. It helps to have a
map to get to Victoria… but if you don’t know that you’re currently in Nanaimo –
the map isn’t really going to help to it’s full potential. Now that you’ve determined your starting point,
how many of you have goals in regards to your health? How many of you have daily, weekly and monthly
health commitments? Do you evaluate and have a regular check-in to see if you are on track? Creating an action plan with a set of goals is the
essential next step in creating your health.
Lastly let’s look
at HAVING. What are you most looking
forward to in regards to your health, what will your health enable you to have? How will better health improve your relationships? Your work? Your social life and your
hobbies?
Align yourself with
a Be-Do-Have focus in all aspects of your life especially your life and watch
your life and you become what you have always known to be possible.
Yours in health
Dr. Norm
“If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail!”
― Benjamin Franklin
― Benjamin Franklin
This Blog, Norm, gets me pumped! I have already, slowely, started to build up my regime like this and, I tell ya', it really does work! And often times it makes me more excited to do more. Like when you have a messy house, and decide to clean it, and do some extra decorating, with a little bit of beautiful happy music to dance too along the way, and wazam!... a nice beautifully much tidier, newely decoratied, cozy, warm, living environment! WAA HAA!
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